A Message For Young Muslimahs PART 1

Assalmualikum (Peace be Upon You),
This is a brief message for all the young Muslimahs out there... BE YOURSELF.

Girls, you have no idea how important it is, to be yourself. Especially, in this age of complicated social networking and worldwide connection. Unfortunately, as girls, we believe we must conform to the rest of society and do what majority of people expect us to do.

I've been grateful enough to live through the transition from having to turn off the internet connection to use the phone to, carrying the world in our pockets. And I must say I am glad that this transition took place in my early teenage years. Basically, I can say that I've lived the best of both worlds. Hence, the reason behind why I am skeptical of many of the decisions I make. I've seen so many people make decisions in their lives that they've come to regret in the long run.

However, we are humans after all. And we are bound to make mistakes. The actual question is, "Why would we deliberately make an avoidable mistake?" Yes, worldly desires are very tempting, but honestly, think:

• Will having our eyebrows on "fleek" matter on the day of judgement?
• Is it necessary to have the latest iPhone, when the one you currently have the previous edition that works perfectly fine?
• Does having Kylie Jenner lips actually make you look attractive? 

These are just a few questions we should seriously think about. Now do not get me wrong, I am not saying applying makeup and pampering yourself is wrong. But feeling insecure about yourself and your natural face, is wrong. No one should walk out their houses with the mindset of thinking a person that does not apply makeup is inferior to a person that does. Insecurity gradually kills a person from within themselves usually leading to depression. Could you ever imagine, your mind being your greatest enemy?

In this age of YouTube videos and easy access to reaching out to people all over the globe, just about anyone can become a self trained MUA. We live in an era, where appearance and the latest trends matter more than social issues. 

For example, in the year 2015 alone multiple countries such as Syria, Palestine, China, Burma, etc. are suffering major crisis. With such advanced technology, people are still unaware of local tragedies and injustices. In 2015 alone the number of police related incidents/ shootings have drastically increased. However, are we aware of these matters? The honest answer is, no. In an era of  major technological advancement and socializing, we are dehumanizing ourselves and have actually become less social. 

Think twice, before you make any decision in your life. It could be the smallest decision ever, for example whether or not you should shape your eyebrows, even after knowing that the cons outweigh the pros. Or it could be a major life changing decision for example, whether you drop out of school to become a certified MUA. Always, keep a back up plan in mind before making major decisions in life. 

To the teenage girls, I must say you girls are surviving through one of the toughest times, ever. You have to balance your social life, education and these social changes all at once. Just remember, our lives in this world are temporary and our actual destination awaits us based on our decisions, actions and intentions of this world. Don't get so caught up in the mist of worldly desires that you forget who you are.

May Allah (SWT) keep us on the straight path, and prevent us from going astray.

Always Be Yourselves,

Another Advising Muslimah

P.S Please note, I am not an alimah nor am I a professional, if I make any mistake in my work, do not be hesitant at pointing it out. Comment if you want a Part 2 :), or if you have any general questions. I will try to answer to the best of my ability.